Private appointments in Reno start at $250 per hour tribute for one person. To book a session, review my website in its entirety and pay special attention to the "Serve Me" links. You will find the application there.

My approach to negotiation emphasizes complete honesty and open communication. Candidly discussing all desires and concerns without fear of judgment is essential for a healthy relationship and enjoyable experience. The beginning of the negotiation process is the submission of your application, which prompts you to detail your limits and interests thoroughly. The application isn't considered complete until you provide a reference with a current website and email, or request an in-person or phone consultation. Upon a positive reference, I will request any necessary additional information and confirm a session date/time (this would be done at the consultation if you requested an alternate screening). I will always provide an opportunity for a brief discussion before we begin our play, whether there's something I need to know or you're just nervous and need to chat for a moment. In-person consultations, even if you have a reference, are highly recommended for establishing a solid foundation if you hope for a longer-term D/s relationship, as they allow abundant time to discuss desires and boundaries.

You can expect to partake in an unforgettable experience while having your limits respected and safety prioritized. Each session is tailored & designed based on the information you provide in your application, any subsequent interactions, and my own intuition. It's crucial to be honest about your desires so I can accent them with my own skills and creativity. Before we start, we'll confirm your limits & interests, establish safety protocols, and agree on rules that will be respected throughout our time together. We will use safe words and cues to ensure you can communicate if anything becomes too intense or uncomfortable. As far as what happens during the session itself, that's for me to know and you to find out. Visit the Session Guide for more detailed information about safety, sanitation, preparation, and confidentiality.

Absolutely! I'm more than happy to play with BDSM novices, provided you read my website thoroughly and successfully pass the required consultation screening. I also recommend lots of independent research into your kink interests, including how to be safe and reduce risk, and into professional domination services. Learn more about screening requirements here.

Definitely. Although I am a Sadist, I am also a Goddess and Temptress. There are so many possibilities and types of play that don't have to involve pain, including bondage, sensory deprivation, foot worship, psychological play such as tease & denial or pet play, and fetishes such as latex or spit. Check out my Session Guide page for ideas of what else we could indulge in.

Extended sessions are available only to select clients who 1) already have a trusting relationship established with me from multiple sessions or 2) have multiple references who sing their praises to high heaven. Extreme scenes are also case-by-case, dependent on your definition of "extreme," subject to increased tribute, and only available with the above criteria. If it's on my Limits list, it's a NO.

No, I do not. Asking for that is a great way to get blocked and never hear from me.

I am considered a sex worker because of the sensual adult themes obvious in kink & BDSM, and stand in solidarity with all sex workers of all kinds, but there will never be sex with me during sessions, ever.

If I am accepting help around the house, you will know about it by following me on FetLife or signing up for my newsletter. I am extremely selective in my process and most candidates have been insufficient, so you had better be impressive and really add value to my life. Skip to the front of the line with 2 or more references (current website + email) for prior domestic servitude from active Pro Dommes. You may email themerdomina@proton.me for consideration only if you have these references.

Because I can, and they let me. I dominate people of all genders because my power doesn't stem from my attraction to someone. It stems from within, and merges with the power you willingly give me, to create immersive moments of ecstasy within a symbiotic power exchange. Beyond enjoying what each unique connection offers, I'm turned on by power and control.

Both! Aren't people allowed to like their jobs? I thought that was the American Dream. Chase your passions and follow your bliss, right? That should apply to sex workers, too (by sex workers I do mean people who choose it for themselves, not trafficked folks). I hope we're all lucky enough to make a living doing something we love.