Communication

I am selective and intentional about who and what I invest my time and energy into. I deserve to be addressed with courtesy and consideration, and I will extend that same courtesy to you unless we’ve negotiated otherwise or you have crossed a line. I want to be spoken to with respect, empathy, clarity, politeness, and thoughtfulness because I’m capable of the same. I expect detail in applications. You should review my website thoroughly, not only to get to know me and how to impress me, but to make an informed decision for yourself.

Interests

Make sure we have several shared interests to play with, or you’re at least willing to try new things and explore new kink territory with me. Variety is the spice of life after all, and we never want this to get old. I want us to truly enjoy our time and resonate with what we’re doing because BDSM should be a fun (albeit sometimes dark & twisted) way to connect.

Boundaries

For both our safety, please be aware of and clearly communicate your mental and physical boundaries. If you tell me you have “no limits,” I will not session with you until you know yourself better. In addition, do not play games with me and my boundaries (i.e. continuing to disobey my instructions on purpose to get a rise out of me). If you do, I will end our time together right away, and you will pay for the full appointment.

Responsibility

I follow the PRICK (Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink) model of BDSM. Each individual involved is accountable for their own safety, which includes understanding risks and informing others, being aware of comfort levels, and using safe words as needed. This does not imply that one person bears less responsibility for another’s safety; rather, it means that the dominant or more experienced partner is not solely responsible for the other person’s wellbeing.